It sounds like a no brainer to me too BL.
I think your bf will either get over it or he won't - frankly I think either way you'll be better off.
You really need to focus on you now.
I have no SLH experience but it's got to be better than the last couple of years K.
I really believe that people can turn things around - I'm one of them, after all
You can do this
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