On a sidebar - FREEDOM1990, you post the nicest things. Really, you are a wonderful source of calm assurance...not just in this thread but others too. thanks for that.
djayr - I want you to know you are not alone. I too have a hard time making decisons. From small things like what to have for dinner to the big ones regarding divorce and the future. I have no advice other than to tell you that you are not alone. I will be reading this thread and hope you find the peace you are looking for.