Stoptheworld:
Your love for him will have you to believe that you should be there and see him through this. I was recently in your shoes in March of this year. I choose to leave my ex and while it was and still is hard to deal with at times, it was the best thing that I could have done for myself. I will say that in choosing to be without him you are choosing yourself. You don't deserve to subject yourself to his addiction and all that it entails (lies, stealing, deceit). He has to make the choice to get clean and be committed to it himself. He cannont be the partner you want him to be in the state that he is in. Hugs!!!