All we can do is hope our sobriety is contagious, as I've said before. I'm for staying together as much as possible. So, being sober is a good way to start. But, please keep venting in the mean time. Hopefully, he'll come around. I really look up to you for the strength you are showing here.
All will be quiet from me tomorrow as I'm taking my Mom to get groceries and such, and stop for lunch somewhere we can eat outside...and no cocktail. Mom doesn't drink, so this will be easy!