Anew - that is a huge question for me. I don't think he'll ever stop drinking but you never know. I hate him when he drinks, he gets mean and is just downright verbally hurtful. If he just has a couple its not bad - but when he gets going, or rather when both of us used to get going I can't tell you the countless times I screamed for a divorce. Makes me sad, more so for my kids, but I really don't know how long this marriage will last. Right now I'm just concentrating on being sober today right!?