Polly pissy pants, must be related to my hubbie, Negative Ned, who has a sister named Debbie Downer!
Keep working on you and leave your hubby up to your higher power. My sponsor told me those words several months ago, and she was right! The more I have changed myself, the better things have become. Now, I can't say he has changed completely, or maybe even at all. It just doesn't bother me anymore.
My hubby still drinks, for years, I admitted I was powerless over alcohol (meaning for myself) but it took me a long time to accept I am powerless over his drinking alcohol too.
Wow, that was a real eye opener for me. Acceptance of that made my life much easier.
Will I be able to live with a man that still drinks forever? I don't know the answer to that right now. All I know is that today, I am sober, happy and free from alcohol.