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Old 07-06-2011, 10:18 AM
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LaTeeDa
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To simplify it even further, it's really just a way of explaining the power struggle dynamic. In order to "win", one person moves into either the persecutor or rescuer role, putting the other person into the victim role. But, the victim must then change up the roles in order to be on top because they are "losing". And round and round it goes as each person tries to stay on top by victimizing the other.

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