I had to go no contact with my EXAH because every time I talked to him, I was in an emotional tail spin for days. He never did grab onto recovery, despite going through rehab shortly before I went (I'm also a recovering addict/alkie).
I also have a 33-year-old daughter in active addiction and my contact with her is very limited. I'd have no contact with her at all but my 15-year-old granddaughter lives with her.
I no longer take a front row seat to anyone's addictions, including my daughter's.
Life's too short!
