I hear ya Beulah
My brother and his GF just showed up unannounced.. of course with a case of beer. He took one out of the case and handed it to me. I looked like a deer in the headlights. I am still shaking. Well, 2 hours later and countless Starburst candies I am here. My brother is drunk on my deck acting like a fool. I am hiding in my house shaking like a leaf.....GOD give me STRENGTH