Congrats on your 67 days sober and welcome to SR!
I know when I started I was scared and very anxious. Petrified even. I just had to take that first step and talk to some women and get some phone numbers and eventually I asked someone to sponsor me. If you say you are new, people should be glad to help you out. As hard as it is, go early and stay after and try to get to know some people. Not every one is tough love.
As the saying goes in AA, you have to give it away to keep it so people are usually glad to help you. All of us have been new at one time so we know how you feel.
You can always come here and ask questions. People here are very understanding. But I hope you don't give up on AA. It has been life changing for me since I started almost 2 years ago and have worked the steps. It isn't a secret and we love to help you work them.
Glad you are here.