Yes I have been seeing a therapist and she doesn't really weigh in on custody she just states that we have to do what's best for our daughter and try to workout a schedule. His sister is willing to come here and faciliate drop off and pick up for me but not get involved in the when and what day, etc...I just don't get it! Why does he feel like he can just drop kick me and then on top of it be a jerk with regard to our daughter. He threatened me he's taking me to court and thrown every bad thing in my face. One time when I was low when we were separated I said I felt like I didn't have the will to live and he said he would tell the court I am suicidal. He's so angry and threatening and yet, he is the one who chose this! I do feel like I'm going insane...