(((((hugs))))) Hope things get straightened out quickly, and I hope you have the ability to hire a good lawyer if it comes to it for your daughter. I lost custody of my son when he was 2 1/2, and before that I spent all day, every day with him. That was three years ago and I still am not at all used to this. Now he's with the person my ex cheated on me with all day every day, and every time he comes to visit he complains that no one ever plays with him (ex and his SO are both morbidly obese, they bought him a Wii so they "wouldn't have to let him play outside so much"). I wasn't able to afford a lawyer for the temporary hearing, and after that it was their lies about me, my dad and his side of the family siding with the ex, and the fact that my ex lives in the house my son was already used to. Praying for you in this very trying time.