an interesting thing is that i have beed exploring the codependent aspect of myself, but through a link from abundance, i read about counterdependence---bingo!
in a relationship, it said, the counterdependent can become codependent, esopecially with another counterdependent. that all makes sense.
i think a part of this is i do nto want to have to aknowledge taht we may be incompatable, /// more to follow... gottas run at work