Originally Posted by
barb dwyer roxiestone wrote:
If this were your best friend in the entire world =-
what would YOU advise them to do?
Because this *is* your best friend in the whole world -
you.
ANd *that* is the relationship
that you're attempting to focus on these days, right?
It really helped me in early recovery
to ask myself that question ...
knowing it was about myself.
I was amazed after a while
how much power just asking that question
and placing myself in my own best friend
position
helped me to move forward.
Maybe that'll help you?
I would tell my best friend: "Really think about this"
and I'm still thinking.
I'm a slow responder on lots of things right now. Time has been on my side so far.
I really don't know my answer.