i say run ,run, run because it is my son that is the addict. i love him so very much but he has put me & his family thru so much until i found recovery right here at S.R. he has been using since he was 21 that i know of. he spent his 17th b-day in jail due to alcohol. from there it only got worse. he was in prison due to drugs at 23. with an addict it only gets worse until THEY decide to do something about it. it takes alot of hard work on there part.my son just had his 40th b-day in the dept. of corrections. he has been there for 3 yrs & has 4 more to go. if love could make or get them clean my son would have been clean yrs & yrs ago. no one can make a decision for you to stay with this girl..only u can do that just take it a day at a time. prayers going up for u & her too.