Pearls of wisdom from gettingby!!
When dealing with my exah...trying to decide what the right thing to do was...
so many of my thoughts and decisions were based on what HE was 'going to do'...what HE said he needed...
I made almost all of my decisions out of a sense of guilt and obligation.
Sounds like guilt and obligation are tugging at you too.
the one question I never seemed to ask myself was what did I want?
And what did I need?
Your needs count too.
Your AH may not understand your needs...
he may or may not be able to fulfull them.
Only you know if this is the case.
I can only encourage you not to lose YOU in the process.
You count.
Your feelings are valid whether he understands them or not.
Hugs...I know its tough...
Mary