Thank you, so much. I know, I try REALLY hard to have that attitude "thank God he is not my problem anymore". What's really silly and wierd is that if I KNEW for SURE that things were a mess for him, and that he's not riding off into the sunset with her, I think I could let it go. Strange, huh? Not that wish him ill-will. But thank you. I will keep in mind everything you said.... it helps a lot. I need that "reality" check about what is probably happening with him and this woman. Perhaps it will crash and burn.