Originally Posted by
nodl5 
Well, I have to pause, do I desire sobriety for just me? If I am sober, God willing, do I not become a better father, a better driver, better at financial matters, and my favorite, make better judgements. I suppose all the fore mentioned items come down to making better judgements.
"Sought after virtue is not true virtue"
- Lao Tzu
Don't worry about it. Even if you start out with selfish motives, the recovery process is the cure for selfishness. If everybody benefits, it is no longer selfish.