I've made the choice to remove unhealthy people from my life now that I'm able to clearly see what/who is healthy for me and what I want. For the first time in my life I'm being a little bit "selfish" meaning I'm not trying to please others in social drinking and such. It's amazing how many people find it so bizarre that you don't drink once you stop! I've made a choice to remove or distance myself from certain people and surround myself with new people that fit to my current lifestyle.