Congrats to your Son!!! My daughter is graduating too and AH says he will nto attend her graduation party. The things they can say and do are so hurtful at times. I try and read some Al-ANon literature and focus on that one day. It sucks, but we really just have to not depend on them for anything. It is like dealing with a big teenager instead of an equal caring partner.
Try and focus on you, your son and mom. I find we I take the focus off my AH, I do so much better and feel better too.
