Originally Posted by
JACKRUSSELLGIRL 
He also said he will not be going to our daughter's graduation party. I guess I could say typical A behavior.
I'm sorry, but what an a--! I hope your daughter's graduation ceremony and party go without a hitch.
Yep, just because he doesn't sign the paperwork, it doesn't mean the divorce stops. Seems to be a common theme among practicing A's. XAH told his GF that he filed for divorce 'ages ago' and he thought it was final, but apparently I didn't sign, and THAT was why he was still married and didn't know it.
I'm not sure who I find more naive / delusional: XAH for coming up with the story, or his GF who believed it, and who went through her own divorce a few years before.
Best wishes and hugs!