I read this yesterday and again today - so fitting as it is where I am in my recovery. Intellectually I know things, but having trouble getting my mind and my heart to accept. I find myself thinking I can forgive "if"...
The "if" is what gets me in trouble. Forgiveness is not something you give in return for some action...it is a state of mind. See...I know this...I just don't feel it yet. *SIGH*
Something to pray and meditate over, I suppose!