It looks as if you have made great steps in your own recovery in just a few days. Beware of her appearing to want to make a change. Could just be her dancing with you and your mind. Hopefully she is getting to the point where she is done being drunk and unhappy and if that is the case you will see her take major steps in that direction all on her own. Meanwhile focus on you. Determine what your boundaries are and keep learning all you can on alcoholism and being a codie.