not sure how this works...
so the husband has being seeing this therapist for a little while...like a month or so...friday i'm supposed to go with him to see her. i have no idea what to expect.
i'm kinda worried i'll get ganged up on....what i'd like to happen is i get to talk about some of my issues with him and his behavior so they both understand how i feel.... then talk (or listen) about his plan for better himself/dealing with his problems etc.
i don't want to go in and have them both coming at me about what i need to do and what my problems are or how i've hurt him or messed up crap blah blah blah.
that sounds bad maybe...and i'm not unwilling to make changes to myself and whatnot..but i just don't want that to be what this therapy thing is about.
so what do u thinks gonna happen... anybody been through one of these things?
also i don't have any proof he's drinking but 3 weeks ago he spent $60 at a 7eleven...he smokes a carton of cigs a week but surely they aren't that expensive right? i really have no idea....