sesh--one question--could you clarify for me how you differentiated relationship problems with alcoholic problems? this is something that is always so hard for me to figure out... coz when As get backed in the corner they throw everything at you "i dont like you" "im not attracted to you" "i dont want to be in a relationship" etc.... i mean is that alcoholic or relationship? obviously it ended up being the end of the relationship, but what's an example you have that clearly puts them in separate corners?