Great post Wildart! That is basically what I did. I have functions and social gathering that I have to and want to attend. I knew to live my life on my term sober I had to be able to handle these situations. I had a plan, I knew I was not going to drink, I always had a non alcoholic beverage in my hand, I knew how I was going to turn down drinks, and I knew how to make a quick exit if necessary. I also made a point to tell people out loud that "I am not drinking tonite..it kept me accountable. As time went on I tell people I don't drink anymore ever. And it feels great!!
I learned I enjoyed being out with social drinkers, I also learned what it was like to leave a party or gathering at a normal time, (I was always the last one to leave...unless the booze was gone when I was drinking, and I learned that I felt great in the morning.
My advice if you plan on doing this is to have a plan, and make it real clear to yourself that no matter what happens you will not drink.