Old 05-21-2011, 08:28 AM
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Big hugs BobbyJ. I am going to tweak lillamy's tagline and say "If you're going through grief, just keep going".

For today, you know you did the right thing. Now his downfall will not be yours. Now you have a chance to get on the life raft and swim for shore.

Doing the right thing can also be the hardest, most painful thing. Trust me, I know.

Let yourself feel and go through the motions. Tell yourself you are going to be ok, and then start walking your talk - like the recovering A's do - and one day you won't just be walking anymore.

And don't predict the future or what other people are experiencing. That's a no where trip that only brings you more pain.

What do you want to do with your life now? That's the question you can ask yourself now.

Thinking of you today...sending prayers and positive thoughts.
~T

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