stella, mine blamed me too! but i think it was because this was the bullseye i gave him for what i am very vulnerable about. the last night i ever talked to him he was like "MY love isn't blind!" as in he thought i was unattractive... and yet, like nights before was telling me i was. it was pretty much my last straw. people don't get into relationships with people they aren't initially attracted to--i dont believe in "falling out of love"... i think people that say that just basically quit loving period. it had nothing to do with the attraction for the other person.