I have a job now. Actually 2. We spend a lot of time away from each other. Gives him time to stew about how I did and wrong and a reason for him to do what he wants. I have my priories now.
1. Stay sober
2. Regain my relationship with God
3. Work on the relationship with my kids that I blew with my alcoholism
4. Get caught up on my bills so I can move on with my life
5. Meet new people that are sober, encouraging and honest. Be it AA or some other setting