@ Anvilhead, It's not that I feel that what my ex has going on with the children involved and the 3 way is a good thing. When my ex and I were married he wanted me to support him completely so he could make art and tatoos. Now he has that and they bought him a motorcycle (he is a Harley fanatic) and as far as he is concerned life is better than it was when we were married. So when I say he has it better I mean that he is happier now then he was when he was married to me. .that part is difficult for me to accept.
@Hello-kitty I"m not remarried. I haven't dated anyone seriously or exclusively since I was divorced in August.
Thanks for all of your responses. Very insightful.
Nena