The family tree can be really twisted. They certainly know how to push buttons that is for sure. Is it like a trust issue..like if you confide in your daughter it will get back to your sister? I guess I am thinking in early sobriety you get to call the shots..whatever works ...works! Maybe keep connecting with your daughter and if you can tell you need to keep the conversation only between you and her..I do understand this. I have a few nutbirds in my family that I communicate with only when I have to. And even then..I keep it short..to the point and sweet. Congrats on the 10 days..Family is no easy fix that is for sure...