Yeah, that's not fair. Everyone and everyone's recovery is different.
I've been to about 5 meeting in the past 2 months muchless in a week. LOL Take your advice and talk with her...no one said you HAVE to keep her as your sponser. Maybe there is another you can relate to.
I don't even have a sponser. I have a list of people I can call -but never had to call. IDK, it's just so different for everyone.