StarCat

I would suggest when looking for counselors, ask for one that has experience in addiction or those affected by addiction. It does make a difference, because addiction is complicated, and having someone experienced in that already understands the conflicting emotions that go along with the problem.

And I am so grateful to Al-Anon, I have grown so much just by attending a meeting once a week. I have been to four different Al-Anon groups while trying to find one I liked. Some were alright, some I hated, and my Tuesday meeting feels just like home. If you have options for multiple meetings, keep "shopping" until you find the meeting that fits. Feel free to locate more than one you like, too.