i quit rearranging my day around someone else's needs/demands.
i quit giving my things, time and energy to someone who doesn't appreciate it or acknowledge it.
i quit trying to have effective communication with someone who isn't capable of such.
i quit relying on someone who is unreliable.
i quit having sex because he is randy.
i quit feeding him, cleaning up after him, making sure he gets to work.
i quit counting drinks and counting money spent on drinks.
i quit wondering where he is, who he is with and what he is doing.
i quit believing someone who is a proven liar.