I can believe that was your first thought bc when I started reading your post, I thought that it was headed precisely where you thought it was when you saw the cop car.
What did you do in your AH's mind that he called the police about.
Unreal how similarly we think.
I've read/heard that for as sick as the alcoholic is, we non's are sometimes sicker. I think for me that is absolutely true. My anxiety, worry, fear that I've constantly done something wrong is with me 24:7 some days. Less so now, but it will be a long long time before it is gone, if it ever is.
Progress though is that you recognized that that was not normal thinking and then could laugh at yourself-- that is progress!