I wanted to add that last year, when he kicked us out, and I didn't manage to stay out(and i tried, everything I could think of and was recommended to me), when I came back. I fell into a deep depression, it took me nearly a year to come out of it. What was worse is that it seemed AH went dry jsut long enough for me to get my hopes up that this time was going to stick. Nope, it lasted 45 days, the day he came home with a case and said "see, I can stop drinking" and started cracking open cans is the day that broke me, broke me for quite awhile.