I guess I'm making sure I dont do the wrong thing by leaving him because I am very concerned about that. I dont think that it would be very beneficial to stay since it could only get worse- especially since he has recanted his confession. Now he says he only told me that out of anger for me accusing him (see my blog post for details) I now need help knowing IF he is actually using, or if I am just paranoid. I will try some of the local groups as well. At least until I have done SOMETHING. I am very nervous about this, and want to do the right thing.