I love this site because several times I have been pleasantly surprised by things I read. Things I read are my feelings verbatum! I received an email from my ex lashing out saying I don't deserve respect because I adhere to the court order from when we first separated. I am willing to even let him have her more but he always acts angry or picks a fight whenever we speak. I don't get it..not only did he abandon us for the umpteenth time but now he twists the knife and insults me every chance he gets. Why doesn't he just leave and stay gone?