Originally Posted by
pixilation 
may I suggest that once everything is settled in court, you talk to the state bar about your previous lawyer? The guy sounds seriously "off".
I second that sentiment.
WTBH...you are making such strides. Because, as was said above by Impurrfect, you are NOW ready to deal with the truth. You've been repeatedly traumatized as both a child and an adult. Just because you were an adult doesn't mean you "should have known better." You only know what you know...and coming from such a dysfunctional upbringing, how could you possibly know "normal" or "healthy"? HP is with you every step of the way and these last few weeks of revelation prove it. Keep moving forward, you are doing GREAT!!!
