MG - LOL - Let me guess....he was making supper for you when this happened LOL. That boy really is trying...but like my son he stumbles all over himself.
My son used to push my "expectations" button when he lived with me. He would say "I don't have to live up to YOUR expectations" but what he really meant was the he didn't have to respect my boundaries. Aside from boundaries, I had no expectations. My reply was "then I will expect you to leave really soon".
Sometimes I wonder if I could even funtion in a "normal" world anymore. Where ARE all the "normal people"? Helloooo!