Yeah, I had so many promises and hollow declarations tossed at me...exabf could be in AA and working the steps 24-7 right in front of my FACE, and I still wouldn't fall for it.
Originally Posted by
Linkmeister 
I have a little gift-type box that I keep in my bedroom and I have put EXABF's name on a slip of paper and popped into my God-Box. Just the act of putting something on paper, putting it into the box is for me, a visual reminder of turning him (or whom or whatever) over to their HP.
kitty, I got sucked back into the web so many times after reading a pleading, begging, promising email and each and every time, I went back to the drama and chaos, thinking deep down that things would change. They never did. Like you, I have those weak moments, wondering if this time is "the time" that things will change. Judging from what I have seen, they haven't. It's not up for me to control whether they do change, only accept what is and move on and make the best for what I can control-me, my life and my decisions.
