XXXXXX, thanks for the awesome update. I'm glad you're starting to reinvent your life near your support system.
I would advise just toughing it out at your parents' place, mostly because that's what I'm doing and I can see the benefits to my child. She has a safe place to call home and three loving adults to care for her. I have been here since I left XAH in October 2009, so it's been over a year. In that time, I've managed to pay off all my debts to the Federal government, as well as credit card and utilities debt that XAH put in my name. I've put money aside for DD's education, for my retirement, and for the closing costs on a new home we're considering buying next year. Yes, I have very little privacy but I have a NORMAL life, free of chaos, clutter and drama.