Thanks Everyone!
Thank you all for replying to my post. I recieved a message from him, and it appears that he had no intention on letting me know he was in town. At this point, I think he drinks more than I think he does. I am not going to end the friendship. I just know that if I went to Rochester for a weekend and did not let him know I was in town, he would be extremely hurt. Thanks for your words, they helped a lot.