suki,
I've only just started my blog, so there is not much on there at the moment, but I would like to think that some people may appreciate the frankness in it. It is not an advice site, it is merely an honest account of feelings and thoughts that, I'm sure, some feel guilty about having.
There are many things I have done over the years to try and help; not just myself, but all my family. I am merely at the stage where writing for anyone and everyone to see and read how sometimes it can be, is right for me at the moment.
With regards to help, no matter where it comes from, I think that help is the only thing that can possibly see an addict's family through the trauma. Anyone can get cancer, anyone can be run over and anyone can become an addict...not everyone can cope with living with a dying person, a paralysed person or, indeed, living with an addict.
Many thanks for your comments