Aw thanks friends. Uncertainty I will do that. Hopefully he got the message.
If he is around again I will
1 ask whoever to walk me to my car
2 join another gym, its just not worth the stress, I haven't had paid the second half of the year, and I know about a Kung Fu place that is cheap. (With my new 'date', in fact my friend and I may go join him today)
ItsMeAlice its XBF not XABF who is doing this .. this is my last Ex who is not an alkie. So, there goes my "it was the alcohol" excuse, XBF is selfish and weird SOBER, so alcohol is not the issue.
My picker is getting slightly better, THAT is huge!!
XABF, there were some days I miss him STILL but I am more convinced than ever that toxic people don't change by magic ..so all the stuff we talk about here is not meant to make us feel better its just the truth of things.
Now I am eating my Subway with gusto
ah, I even had stopped eating, due to work. Sheesh. It feels great to take care of myself....