Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
...but I think that what attracted him to me in the first place was that I was strong and independent. He liked that until he realized that strong and independent ='s no coddling and he's tried his best to mold me into his mommy part 2 for years...
Sorry for the vent... I just really related to your post Shellcrusher...
Yep. Not only does it mean no coddling but you and me are also Dictators/Hitlers/Control freaks!
Why? Um, cause I can balance my own checkbook, change my own tire, tie my shoes? Yeah, I'm a big boy but that's a bad thing these days. Frustrating.