Originally Posted by
putmeontheair 
Suki -- did you both have your name on the title? My name isn't on the title, but RAH can't afford the mortgage.
Both our names were on the deed, but he signed it fully over to me in the divorce. If your name isn't on the deed, I wouldn't worry about the payments. He's a grown man and if he can't afford his house, he needs to sell it. What is the point of separating if you continue to pay his bills? He needs to learn to take care of himself.