Hi MG,
It really makes me crazy if someone messes around with my "stuff". In a house with three other people, two dogs, and two cats, stuff can get moved, lost, destroyed, whatever. Most of the time I am easy going about it all, but when stress takes me over then watch out! I can go beserk if the sizzors are not in the appropriate place!! And sometimes I find out that I was the one to leave them someplace else. lol.
You are doing great, perhaps exercise would help. I find if I do very strenous exercise, it relaxes me no matter what is going on in my life. I feel like a bowl of jello, mello..................whatever.....