I'm sorry.
You've been her long enough now that you can see the folks here have been giving you excellent guidance-- please consider that the guidance they give you today is probably coming from a great deal of experience and strength. Take that experience and strength, learn from it, and there will be hope for your tomorrows.
Just trust them when they tell you not to touch the stove because it's hot and you will get burned. If you do get burned and you already have been, they can help you find a way to make the pain go away (there will be scars, but they'll fade over time and recovery). They know from experience, a collective years and years and years of experience. It's there for you. Take advantage of it.
Or, you can be like me and put your hand on the stove and keep it there for the next ten years.
Take care,
Cyranoak