Thank you StarCat. It certainly does stink..sigh. You are right though, I guess the family is trying to cope and since I am AH's wife maybe they feel like it is "up to me" in a way to fix him. Hoping he can get into rehab soon..very soon. We went up to the one he is going to get into again today so they could see if benzo's were still in his system. Sure enough, still there. He kept begging them to keep him..told them he would sign a waiver and everything and they still said "not until your urine is free from benzo's". Gahhh, I'm going nuts, he's going nuts. Just a vicious cycle. *stepping off my soapbox*
(((((Hugs)))))